keeping conversations going

this goes out to both guys and girls. im a pretty funny guy and I know I can be good with girls but I dont always perform my best. I know I have potential but I dont always know how to use it, when im talking to girls sometimes the conversation slows down and gets awkward and I just cant think of anything to say. I know im just trying too hard and we can just talk about random stuff but I just cant settle down and be natural with it. if I know the girl well then I can talk about random stuff and im comfortable acting like myself (kind of a funny random guy). but with girls I dont know well and want to get to know better I freeze up a lot, and I HATE it. if I just knew how to open a girl up im in the clear. its all the advice I need with girls.

Answer #1

That’s how I am too, like if I’m comfortable enough I just keep talking and talking. Every time you see her you should start a conversation, like small talk, if you talk to her more often then chances are you’ll get more comfortable and then you’ll open up :)

Answer #2

I just have to be in the right scenario with the right people, then I wont shut up. I think if I like the girl I feel the need to be funnier, or cooler than I have to be and I just cant get that off my chest I dont know why. theres this girl that I really want to make it work with eventually but first I have to get over the awkwardness, if I can just open her up then im fine from there, im good at adding onto other people’s stuff.

Answer #3

You sound like a chatty guy haha, you’ll be fine. Stop being so nervous & what not, be yourself even if you run out of things to say or if you’re outnumbered by girls.

Answer #4

Like you said, you’re a “funny random guy” put that to to good use. Any girl loves a guy with a sense of humor that’s a guaranteed way to keep the conversation going :) hope I helped.

Answer #5

Thanks. im usually good at using my humor when me and the girl are doing an activity, such as cooking or something, or doing homework together, I cant come up with many examples, but when were doing something that we can talk about I can usually make it funny. my problem is when it comes down to being face to face and not being able to talk about whats around us, if were on a dinner date or something, im just not good with that. especially when im outnumbered by girls, at that point I feel like im watched like its an olympic sport.

Answer #6

Yeah even the small talk I dont get sometimes. I just freeze up its annoying

Answer #7

I do too, but us girls can get off with just smiling and flipping our hair lol.

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