Jealous of my friend

You see my whole life I have been an extremely quiet and shy person. Very introverted. I don’t know why I’ve just always been that way and for years I’ve had a friend. We get along great. We’re kinda opposites in a way. The only problem is I’m kinda jealous cause I feel she has this kinda charm on people and everyone likes her and I feel like I’m being judged by everyone I meet. I just have this feeling people don’t like me just cause I’m quiet. I can’t help it I can’t be my true self unless I’ve know the person for a while. Is it natural to feel this way? Am I just over my head?

Answer #1

Exactly that’s another thought I had I don’t want to try to be like her I still want to be myself. Thanks for that!

Answer #2

Don’t try to be like your friend, be yourself. If people see you trying to be like her and like trying to copy things she does they will think worse of you then if your just quiet.

I say to just try and come out of your shell a little more. Whenever someone talks to you, talk back. Don’t be an anti-social …

Theres not really any advice I can give on how to come out of your little ‘shell’ bc I’ve never really been in one. :p

Just try not to be so shy, even if its hard. And dont get nervous and TRY to be funny or something bc that most likly wont work. :p

Answer #3

just see exactly what it is that you are jealous about and than just try to reach your frnz level and become that charm person for a change…it is normal for you to act like this..u are not ovr your head lolz!!!

Answer #4

Okay thanks a lot!

Answer #5

For being “introverted” you are pretty open on this site, so I think IF it is jealousy, you have nothing to be jealous of, you have your own charms and you’ll discover them in due time, but so far you seem like a kickass person :D

Answer #6

Haha thanks but thats only because I’m on a website and I know I’ll probably never meet these people but if you meet me in person you’d know what I mean but thanks anyway

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