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I'm jealous of what my Guy friend and Other friend have together

My Guy Friend(who is also my crush)and I are great friends..at least we WERE ‘Great friends ‘until I found out that him and my OTHER friend are Friends With Benifits..he said they friends with benifits but are not an official couple ..I still feel jealous,upset and feel deceived b/c they kept this from me for months and I asked them repetly(one on one) if anything was going on(cause I had a suspicion) and they said No… until the other night when HE finally told me.. he said the reason why he never told me sooner was because he was afraid I would be pssed at him(because he knew I liked him as more than a friend ) but I was more jealous and upset rather than pssed…but then he told me NOT to confront my friend with what I had just heard because SHE MADE HIM promise NOT to tell me…..how can I be good friends with this guy again (like I use to be)when I cant get over my feelings for him and get past the betrayal/deception and hurt feelings?I know that him and I are just friends and hes free to do what he wants but that doesnt change the way I feel for him ?:( I feel that this has changed our friendship..it has torn us farther apart

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Answer #1

The question is does your other friend know you liked him like that?? If she did then that might be who you should be upset with. Now if he knew you like him i cannot see why he would do that. A man will be a man though….never forget that.

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