I've been raped and need some advice to help me get through this!

hiya hun I no how it feels to be raped. I no that its not a nice ting to go threw especially all the examinations and test then you have to do a video interview and relive that time all over again. Its bad enough it happening once and by some 1 you dont know. But when its a family member like it was with me, mine was not my dad it was my uncle he is locked away now. I thought that it would be hard to have sex again I ended up finishing my boyfriend because I was sacred to be near any males at that point I could not even talk to my dad or brother or even the male police officer that was working on my case. I will tell you this my boyfriend is still a little worried about how far to go but just remember he loves you and will never hurt you, it might take you a few months or may be more but your boyfriend loves you. I no that its hard to get threw rape I am still struggling after 5months I have nightmares about that night but I moved away from the area because it holds to many memories there. I hope this help you hun I just wish that I had the courage to ask for help instead I shut myself away from every1 but now am getting my life back slowly but im sure by next year I will be back to my old self with the help from friend and family and my boyfriend. I hope this will help you hun xxx I feel so sorry 4 you xxx

my because raped in my sleep in my sleep and I woke up with a condom hanging out my but what should I do

Im sorry.But 1 in 4 woman will be sexually assualted in some way.I,to am one of those girls.Im only 15 but my dad crossed the line several times.Remember everything happens fo a reason.The thing that got me through was remembering that this taught me something.It taught me to be strong,face things,be cautious but also hold the people I love closest and protect them.I help others because its given me a kinder heart.Your going to be ok someday,I have faith in you. =]

there a lots of helplines that are confidential, have a look around, talk to someone. they will help you and bring back your confidence

I think I have been raped and I dont know what to do I never said yes and I never said no . it seamed forced but it kinda just happened I said no you dont have protection… now the next day he text me and told me we couldnt even be friends what to do?:”(

I’ve been getting raped for the last 10 years am 24 and I have a baby to the man I never wanted to say anything because he’s in the family well he’s my boyfriends brother in law he’s a lot older than me and he controlled everything I said and did so a month ago I got him on tape attacking me and now am scared now for my family and my child has this man is his father I don’t no if I’ve done the right thing my family has been riped apart am so lonely but I had to make him stop I just what to have my family and be happy so lets just hope he gets wants coming to him thanks everyone x

I am so sorry. my sister was raped this past year and it hit me extraordinarily hard I cannot even imagine this for you. but just know this wasnt at all your fault that you have done everything you can do and I am sure your boyfriend will understand eventually because this was completely out of your control. dont worry you’re not alone.

im soo sorry… I dont know anyone thats been raped, and I havent either, but I bet its pretty hard 2 get through… if your boyfriend truly luvs u, he’ll understand and yall will get through it. hope you feel better soon!

I hope they lock up the bastard! I am so sorry this happened to you. It can affect your confidence in yourself and your trust in men. Believe me I am struggling with trust. It is not easy after molestation, rape, or whatever. But be strong get counseling for you and try couple counseling.