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I've been raped and need some advice to help me get through this!

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hi ya can any one help me pls!x I went on holiday a couple of weeks ago to tenerife with my friend! and on the last night me and my friend were very drunk! we were havin a laugh round the pool and one of the barmen was sittin on the wall by us just jokein about we got our bits together because my friend felt sick so she walked back to the room and I was a slight bit behind her I got to the room and notice she was upstairs by this next point I was bein grabbed and tried pushin the barmen off me I keeped sayin no get off me but he was to strong I dont remeber much from then were I had loads to drink that night my body just felt so heavy and I couldnt have any control myself all I remember is wakin up feelin really sore and I no that I didnt feel right and new straight away I was raped! lucky enough I was going home and I couldnt wait to get home and feel safe again as soon as I walked through my front door at bout 1am I was in bits I was shaken up I kept bein sick and hystercilly cryin all I wanted to do was have a boilin hot bath because I hadnt washed so I new I was gonna have an examination I told my mum and dad wot had happened and they were very shocked upset and they were very supportive they called the police and I was asked some questions I had an examination which wasnt very nice but I new that it had to be done because I want this man to be put away!!! when I told my boyfriend it hit him quite hard as well he dont no wot to say to me his quite angry but he has been really supportive and been by my side he nos that it wernt my fault but I no in the futre its gonna effect our sex life and we both feel that our relationship isnt going to be normal anymore if anyone has been through this and was scarred to have sex again and got through it pls help!

can someone help pls im just so confused and so many mixed feelings I just need some answers that can help me to get on with it

thank you xx