Is this fair or how it should be ..?

Then, Sweetheart, you are better off without her. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders and (from what little I’ve read about him) your dad seems to care a great deal about you and for you.

She doesn’t deserve you. If she were my mother, I wouldn’t spare her another thought, no matter how painful it may be. If she’s neglectful in her obligations, it’s by choice, and if she’s choosing to not be around and not provide, then you don’t need her. <3 (my heart hurts for you- I’m dealing with my poor son’s deadbeat dad right now… too many parents ignore their precious blessings and it’s not right or fair…)

Legally, she birthed you, she HAS to pay for you. Have your dad take her to court. She can make this ugly, or she can help out willingly as is her God-given (and state-mandated) responsibility. If she chooses not to pay, the judge will court-order her to either do so, or relinquish all parental rights/responsibilities. THEN if after payment is court-ordered, she still denies you your necessary payment, her wages get garnished and she can wind up in jail. Tell her all of this nastiness can be avoided if she would contribute. Good luck. :)

But if she had the choice to pay or “relinquish all parental rights/responsibilities” then thats probably what she would do .. relinquish all parental rights/responsibilities.

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maybe you should tell her how hypocritical she’s being. I think she should pay child support especially when she’s collecting it from her other childrens fathers. it’s just not right.

she should at least give a better reason beccause that’s just messed up