Is ruining me

Ok, so plese read, I’ve been giving advice to people and I dont even know how to help myself. Right know I have so much pressure, my brother got out of the hospetal after being there a long time, almost a year and, and know that he is out I have to clean,and take care of him and still manage school. My grades have always been up and know they are dropping, and if I tell my dad that I want to just have a little break hes going to hit me or treathen me that he’s ganna put my brother in ashelter, I love my brother more than anathing else, he’s my only brother. I’ve always been a girl that seems to sopport everything and I feel like I’ve failed. Im acting out in school and getting in trouble and the presure is just too much! I need help so somebody can help me, and please dont tell me that I should talk to my dad, I want ways were I can just get time to myself were I can take things easy, and calm myself.and school councelor will not work! I wasent thinking of putting this here, I was just ganna put questions o this site that were minor, but know that I ahve no choice I have to do it. Plese five the best advice you can.

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Answer #1

that is the problem there is no one else responsible

Answer #2

Hmm…it’s pretty tricky…is there any one RESPONSIBLE…you can talk too or ask for help…Make sure it’s MORE than ONE PERSON and they mgith help take care of your brother while you have some time for yourself.

REMEMBER:THEY HAVE TO BE CREDIBLE RESPONSIBLE AND TRUSTWORTHY and MORE than one person AN ADULT OFCOURSE!!…so that one can be accountable to the other.

Answer #3

I know you don’t want to but, you HAVE TO try and have a serious discussion with your dad. Unfortunately if you do not get an education you are going to struggle to help your brother further.

I suggest trying to speak to your dad again and if he doesn’t budge then you’ll have to look at other options for your brother. I know that you love him, but sometimes you have to think about yourself first. You need to finish school and get grades and if you have someone else looking after your brother then you can focus on that and when you finish and have a proper job, you can take him in.

Otherwise try and speak to a counselor (why didn’t it work the first time?). They have to keep things confidential and then you’ll have someone to just talk to.

Answer #4

I cant talk to a councelor becase 1 my dad is so against it and 2 tthe other time I talked to her it was a big mess and human services got called and I’ve went trough that a long a lot and dont want to go trough it again