How do you get over something thats bothering you?

If something is bothering you and you haven’t told anyone, it’s pretty much eating you up. You need to tell someone like a close friend, family member such as your mother, or someone from church. That’s what I’d do anyway. I myself, if something bothers me, sometimes I keep it a secret and I sometimes end up like you, not tell anyone what the problem is until the last minute. When that happens, problems start acurring. If I don’t tell anyone my problems, then I’m pretty much emotional and tend to do allot of crying. I go straight to a church leader to whom I’ve developed a spiritual relationship with, or, a close friend of mine whoes like a grandma to me. Or, I have other friends from church I go to if things bother me. I know I myself, wouldn’t go to my family for anything since I don’t get along with them. But, if your family is understanding, you should talk to them. If things have been causing you to be depressed and ruining your days and weeks, please!! talk to someone about this. And, don’t be afraid!! Since I’m sure you have friends you can talk to about these things. If you feel more pain, you can always funmail me as a sound board since I know how it is for you to feel like this.

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yeah I agree with sooitca. also if you need a short time fix, besides drinking you could just stick your I pod in your ears and turn it all the way up. helpslotss:]

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