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Im never reallly happy.. Am I depresed?

Ok. I knoe I should be happy because I got a pretty nice life going for me.. Exccpt its si crazy how one person can effect you and your mood.. Im always sad. And when sumthing makes me laught its fior a minute but it goes away and im back to being sad.. its really about me and my x he treats me like im nothing! He messes with me.. [[grabs me kissses me swweet talks]] then the next he wont talk to me at all or maybe just ignore me… And when I have a new guy im talking to he goes offf and calls me a hoe and makes me feel bad.. And ihate it. But I cant help but wonder if me and him welll ever have anytiing and I dont want to lose him either because sum guys dont even show there emotions.. But I don’t know what am saying actually. I tolld my mom I wanted sum anti depresent pils because I litterally feel like sh*tt every day and sometimes just feel like crying.I feeel like just running to him and screaming for all hes put me through… But then hed just prob laugh or say im crazy! And besiides that. My mom tells me im just over reacting;; =[ but if I cant get anti depresent pills what can I do … Because I cant take always being sad!!

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Answer #1

I cant believe how simalar your situation is to me. Me and my ex spilt up and I carried on liking him for at least a year, but the only reason I really did carry on liking him is because he kept on taking my away from every one and kissing me and.. etc etc. Yeah, but then, one day I said just stop. And we didnt really talk that much anymore, which sucked but still, it helped me get over him by not seeing him, I got in with new people, new boys and actualy found someone else. All you need to do in my opinion is just say stop it, leave me alone, dont not talk to him ever again but just take a break from him hun :)

Answer #2

My best advice is to go to your GP they will know the best direction to take things in, me myself I am on medication and have been for 7 months and it has helped a lot but as well as that I have had counselling and now am able to deal with things much better allowing me to slowly come off the medication with the doctors help. But medication is not always the answer, for you id recommend counselling, it will help you to talk through things with some one who is impartial to the situation. You also need to make up your mind about this guy… is he really worth it? It sounds as if you looked at the pros and cons you’d realise he’s not. You need to take a stand and not allow him to kiss/ sweet talk you when ever he feels like it, he’s using you and only doing it because he knows hes can, I’ve seen so many relationships like this - it pains me to see it happen time and time again, and it will continue to until the person stands up and says no I deserve more.

I wish you all the best.

Depression is hard message me back if you want advice

Answer #3

yeaa I try to.. but he comes back and is like hy are you mad at me.. and it so hard to push away someone you love :(

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