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What if I'm bi and in love with my best friend?

okay, here it is. im 15 (almost 16) and I am bi. im madly in love with my best friend and shes bi too. my parents dont know becuase they would absolutly flip if they found out becuase they are christian and apparently it is a sin, but I cant help it!! I just feel this way. but anyway this girl and I have gone out sorta, without the label, and it was good, but every time things start to get really good between us she gets scared or somthing and bail, goes and finds another girl and just leaves me there, shes done that like 3 times and she always comes back to me but im tired of it! I just want her to be mine, I get shes scared to have a really good relationship b/c she had one before and long story short she ended up almost commiting suicide. I know I prob sound pethetic, but I really need help! what should I do???

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Answer #1

Well she has to make a final decision and hiding the truth from people will only hurt you guys in the long run but it will almost create future problems. Either way it is a problematic solution both ways but for you two to be together she has to put forth enough effort to deal with everything as much as you are willing to. Sounds like you girls need to talk things through though.

Answer #2

I am in that situation too…but shes not bi…and I love her so much

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