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I think I'm in love with my best friend

I think am in love with my best friend like I dont know but I like her since eight grade now we in nine grade but I never told her I think she know I like her cause we flirt wiTh each other but she straight but every one trying turn her out to be bi and the crazy my friends like her to and stuff but she stright I don’t think she would ever turn but I really love she know I love but she doesn’t know am falling in love wiTh her but I was trying to push myself away from her to get her mad like ever so she would no talk to me but I thought that would been wrong because she still my best friend in I get jealous really easy when nit comes down to her like::[my friend she lesbian to but she like her she like your friend is going be my wife thing&& she would want you she mine] that get me so mad because I love her wiTh Passion …i and control the way I feel for her ….but am going tell went am sure that am really in love with her deep ….because I know she not going change on me ….I feel when am a round I can be myself look in to her knowing that she will never lie to Me and that I want to be with her so bad but she straight I don’t want her to feel like am trying to change her…. what should I do because at this point I dont know and I just want to be wiTh her

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Answer #1

Hmm if you say that she’s straight then if you try to tell her how you feel then you might push her away and you might end up losing her as a friend completely…but then I think there is a chance because you said that yall flirt with each other sometimes…I dont think that 100% straight people will ‘flirt’ with the same sex (if you get where im coming from). So its kinda 50-50 you tell her how you feel (just be brave and go bold) and hope she takes to it or just bottle in your feelings and remain friends to avoid any chance of losing her totally

What you can do though is to try to ‘pick her mouth’…ask her if she would ever consider being with another woman…what does she think about bi-sexual people..what does she think about gay people even and other questions of that sort…

If youre getting a positive response I’d say go for it and tell her (you’d never know if you don’t try)…If not and she like all hesitant and gives you a negative vibe then you can either

a) still tell her and hope for the best b) not tell her and just remain best friends

Really now you have to think it over and decide what you think is best

Good luck …I hope I was a little helpful :)

Answer #2

hm…so you are sure shes not bi??

because I think that you should just keep it to yourself until you find out for sure what she is…theennn once you find out, if shes straight, just keep your feelings to yourself. I know thats easier said then done but I dont think you want things to be awkward betweeen you and her.

Answer #3

That’s coole

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