How do I tell my mom?

Well, I’m 14 almost 15. I have crazy periods and no boyfriend. I want to get put on birth control so then my periods are more regular. But I’m scared to, She already assumes I have lost my verginity when I haven’t. She compares me to when she was 15, she was pregnant. I’m not sure what to do. Do you people think I should ask? Or just go with it? I believe that you should wait until your married to have sex. But she doesn’t believe me. WHat should I do?! Please help!

Answer #1

Thank you guys for the advice, and I’ve had my period sense I was 10. I started really early. But thanks again! <3 the help!

Answer #2

Whenever I need to get out my feelings, or tell my mother something I find hard to tell her, I get out my notebook. I right out everything in need to say in a calm and neat way. I tear the paper out and give it to her. I leave the room while she reads it. Then she comes and talks to me about the problem. It works great. hope this helped!

Answer #3

I think you should ask her because it will help you. if she doesnt believe you then it makes no sense because if she thinks you are having sex then she should still want you on birth control so you wouldnt get pregnant. if you are too scared to ask her or she wont help you then you can go to a clinic and get it by yourself. they will give it to you for free and they wont tell anyone. your mom will never know

Answer #4

You want to go on birth control when you are not even having sex?

Can be a little suspitius can’t it?

Piriods sometimes are inormal when we are young. But if you are having sex and still deny it then tell you mom straight out I mean atlest she will know that you protected…

Answer #5

just ask her, if she says no than you’re just in the same situation that you’re in right now. but if she says yes than there you go! lol and your situation is just kind of funny in a sad sort of way. your mom think you’ve already lost your virginity and you think that you should wait till marriage? wow that sucks

Answer #6

If her periods are irregular, that is not good. Birth control is well known for regulating them.

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