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im 16 and im tired of living in this house, but I dont know what to do. look, it all started since my uncle ended up getting into a serious relationship with the AUNT. they ended up living in a house with the AUNT's sisters and brothers. I dont get along with one of them because when I had my boyfriend he cheated on me with her. then she also took my uncle's love from me. my uncle and me use to be so close, that there would never be a time where I wasnt with him. the day that he told me why I oculdnt be more like that one girl, I changed. everytime I see him playing around with that one girl I would get all upset. I changed in may ways because of him. I became more mature and well I became more responsible and stuff. well now we ended up movine all together in 1 big house. we are 13 people living under one roof. before we even moved in, we all knew that it wasn't a good idea. but we all said that we are gonna have to try and have peaqce with eacother. now that we're living together there has been many problems. my aunt basically gets what shes wants form my uncle. so when she had a problem of me putting my bed and dresser in the room where all of us kids were gonna stay in, she complained about it. so now I stay sleeping in my moms room on the floor. there were other problems that had happened and so on. so this is where this major problem starts. I have a boyfriend, and he lives about 30 mintues away from me. so when he comes and visits me, he has to take 2 metros and a bus. there was one day that he didn't catch the bus and there wasnt anybody to pick him up, so my little aunt and me sneaked him in in the garage which is basically the second living room. in the morning I ditched school to meet him at a park. then there was another time where I ditched school because I didn;t finish my homework, and went to his house. so basically what happened was that my little aunt told her sister (which is the aunt that I dont get along with), and that aunt snitched on me with my older aunt. then that aunt told my uncle, and then him and my aunt told my mom. my mom and me talked about it, and I got grounded and stuff. I knoe what I did was wrong. I really do. since after the day I got caught and talked to my mom, I told myself that it was never gonna happen again. but whatevers. today I was tlaking to my boyfriend on the phone telling him that I wasn't gonna go to my little cousins birthday party, and that I didn't feel like it. I todl him that my mom was gonna work that day anyways and because I was gorunded I doubted I was gonna able to go. and then he says that he was gonna come ot my house so we can go. then I said that my other 3 friends were gonna come to my house to go also. and my aunt comes in and aks me if I was ognna have a party here on the day of the party. and I was like no. and she was all like your trying to sabotage the party, and its not funny and stuff. and im like what are you talking about. and so shes keeps ongoing with it. saying that its not funny and stuff. then she leave and tells my uncle about this. then after they got into a fight my uncle screams at me in forn tof my grandma and stuff. it was really embarrassing. he was telling me that I passed the line, and that im a bad person. that I disrespect evrybody and stuff. and he kept ongoing. then there was a point where he said he loved me to death. at that point I literally started crying and the first thing that popped into my head was that is a lie! you stopped giving me love along time ago! and it is true. the only time we talked was when he was telling me somehting bad. like a complaint about somebody and stuff. living in a house with the whole family is never a good idea. I dont know what to do. since we moved in all together I've been stressed out and depressed. I've been getting migraines because of all the fights and stuff. when I use to live at the other house with only my grandma, mom, and me things were so perfect! and now its all the opposite. my uncle and aunt are always fighting, every single day. and I dont like it at all. what can or should I do?