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I want kids...he doesnt

My boyfriend doesnt ever want to have kids but I do…I want to marry him and he wants to marry me but one of my passions in life is to raise a family and give birth to my own…I want to stay with him but I also want his children…how do I decide? I love him…

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Answer #1

My fiance is the same way. For the longest time he always says he doesn’t want to have kids, he wants to adopt. Which I do too because that’s one less orphaned child. ( I myself was adopted.) But I can’t help wanting to create something so special together. I think that if he truly loves you and knows what’s important to you, he’ll have a kid with you down the road.

It is alot of responsibility for both of you. Maybe he is just scared now.

On a lighter note… If he likes sex… then it would be pretty easy to convince him…

Answer #2

I dont know the age of your bf,because thats important he may have a change of heart in a couple of months or years,so well if your are serious of having kids you have to decide to move on to a realationship that will fufill what you want out of life,give your boyfriend a time line to reconsider his position on not having any (crumb snatchers)kids.then if he still doesnt want them terminate the realationship.best wishes

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