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I think my dad hates me

I think my dad hates me because all he does is yell at me about everything and the only thing that matters to him is his girlfriend, he begged for me to come down I was supposed to leave the next day but im leaving today because I cant stand it, all hes does for the past 2 days is make me cry. Everything I do is wrong and his girlfriend always comes first then his prefect little son, and I dont come in the picture at all, so yea I think he hates me.

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Answer #1

You’re 15 years old. Don’t assume that your dad’s actions are because he hates you. Rather it is possible that he takes YOU for granted whereas he still feels that he has to work hard at keeping a good relationship with his girlfriend.

This answer may be being posted after you have already left.

I’d like to suggest that you calmly sit down and write your dad a love letter. In it, explain how you feel and how hard it is for you to understand his situation. Tell him that you need some of his time and understanding, too, and that you’re not trying or wanting to compete with his girlfriend or your little brother but that you DO want to be able to share your father with them.

I know it is difficult for you. But, YOU have to realize that you and he do live in two different worlds. That what is important in your world may not seem so important in his world and vice versa.

It is important that you communicate with your dad. By doing it in a letter you give him a chance to perceive what you’re feeling over several readings and that may help you get through to him.

I wish you well and hope that you will consider what I’ve suggested.

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Answer #2

look chat to him and try t sort things out

maybe something happend while bk I dunno but maybe you have bad relation ship with your dad or maybe he just has anger problems

try and chat to him trust this helped my mate befor

Answer #3

Its up to you 2 tell your father ( with just you and him there) how you feel.if you leave without telling him then you ca’nt be mad at nobody but yourself.Have you gotten along with your step mom or do you disrespect her.

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