I never thought I'd ask this...

Maybe side bangs and layered

and I know its childish, but you could try a nice low side pony tail

hope it helps, your hair looks like it could do anything

update: My son and I cut my hair and colored it too. I feel so much better. I’ll post a picture when I can. Thnx again, =^u^= kat

Thank you for your suggestions. I just went to a site where you can try different hairstyles (www.marieclaire.com), like a virtual make over. I wish I could post it here but the link is a paragraph long. But the style I liked is what both of you suggested. It is short and parted on the side and layered, has that shaggy look. It’’s kinda like a style I used to do when I was younger called a shag but not that short. To me, it’s always in style and I like the little ponytail thingy. =^u^= Katwoman

if I had fair skin and blue eyes I would try blonde.

I think It’d look cute layered. :]

You guys are right. That’s the style I liked on marieclaire.com. Thnx for the replies.

sidebangs.

your hair is pretty as it is, : )

but I think you could totally rock really high layers and a side bang. it’s edgy & fun. and as far as color, I think a dark crimson red would look great.

but that’s just me. good luck, < 3.