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Starting to go out clubbing and drinking more

ok wel I met my fiance nearly a year ago now, and before I got with him, I was out partying an clubin every weekend an drinking nearly every day. I love my life the way it was my life was like a big party, now I work and obvioucly engaged and I stoped drinkin every day as I work with children now, an I stoped partyin an clubin every weekend, but now for the past 4 months I’ve been out every weekend, and I wana keep on going out every weekend, theres 1 problem… my fiance doesnt like clubing he drinks but no wer near as much as I do, wer completly different but I gues the sayin oppistes attract is true, but he doesnt want to go out every weekend an I want him 2 I no it sound selfish but I miss going out with all my friends, and havin a gud time. Im going out this wk end 2, even tho my fianc doesnt wana go an I do have nites in with him but the weekend is the only time we get 2 c each other properly, we see each other every day for a few hours, but the weekend is when he stays at myn. But the weekend is when I like 2 let my hair down an do my wn thing, got any ideas on what I can do so it doesnt upset my fiance when I go out? xx

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Answer #1

true love is about putting what the other person wants infront of what you want. I no its fun to go out and party wit the girls but just think about what he would want you to do. Its your desision but just think about that. I hope I helped. GOD BLESS:)

Answer #2

Actually scientific research has shown opposites dont last… But lets not get into that… Compromise? Go out some weekends, stay home others? Or go out some place else that you both enjoy?

Answer #3

kaykay is right, like come on now… as much as you love to chill and party it up with your girls, you’ve got a fiance now… and in every relationship… some sacrifices have to be made, I noe you’ve got to have your “you” time everyonce in awhile, so I guess the both of you can comprimise and come up with a plan like ty has said and maybe do something you both enjoy every once in awhile! but yeaa… as you grow older, somethings in the pass have got to be let loose a little, and you’ve got to see the things that matter most in life, and decide wich is more importan/which means more to you! hope you and your fiance come up with a solution! <3

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