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Xmas should I let him go out

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I no he loves me.. But at the beginning of our relationship he would ask out other girls.. well his ex he left for me.. he picked me out of her.. but everytime we used to argue he'd go back to her and try and get her back, then whe we had sorted it he'd leave her'... anyways.. shoud I let him go out drinking xmas with his work mates?/.. first of he goes. 'oh Jay said that we have to go pulll a ginger' I was lykk ohh okay.. and then he mentioned it agen and I was like yeah pulll what wrong with that he goes, well they talking about shaggin them I was ike well you ent doing that lol.. he was like I noo. and then he goes to me other day they thinking of going clubing if steve hasnt picked anything, last year we went dog racing.. And ig ot two tickets so if we do that you might beable to come... but if he doesnt then will proberly al go out drinking... (witch doesnt include me).. I dont know how to act to this.. I woudn't let my boyfriend go to the stag doo of is brother, because he said they'll going strip club's... Thing is I dont want to loose him, I dont want him to cheat or find someone better. am just so scared. yeah I love him and im trying to trust him.. but I no what he's like when he's drunk.. or when hes got a hard on... He'll want it.. he's easy as they say its called.. But if I was to go out he woudn't like it.. exspecialy if it was with a boy mate... I don't know how to act, or what to do he dont let me out He says it ent the fact that im gona cheat or out, he says its because im only 16' and anything can happen to me, someone could spike my drink ECT. but then when I want to go to my home town about 2hours awway and stay at my mates he won't let me because he thinks im gonna cheat, or run of with her uncle who he thinks fancey me, but he doesnt... Does my head in, if I was to go out drinking he'd get the arse about it -_--