I need advice please please please

ok heres the thing I have to much stress while living at home way to much stress and I cant take it I am 18 I get sraight A’s and I am never in trouble I have a job and I hang out with a good croud I do not smoke or lie to them I want to move out I found a appartment that I can afford and ill have roomates and stuff I have a car but its still theres I want to move into the apartment and take care of myself I am cappible of that and my paerents say if I move out I can not take my car wich give me no way to get to work and no way to get to school but I really want to leave

the reason they dont want me to is because my mom moved out when she was 18 and she quite school and she got on drugs I have tried to tell her I am not her and I have a good head on my shulders but she keeps saying no

please help me how do I convince my parent to let me move out ??? and ill pay for it all by myself and let me bring my car with me she said if I leave all I get is my clothes :( I really need help

Answer #1

At 18 your parents cannot force you to live at home anymore. As for the car, you’re out of luck.. it is their car - no matter who drives it. be patient, get a grant, go to college and live in the dorms, you’ll be away from your parents - and going to school, they know (generally) where you are.

Answer #2

Im not pregnant I just want out and I have tried everything the only choice is if I move in with my grandma who live in grove citty which is about 3 hours away I cant go to my school anymore if I do that I love my school my friend and my teachers my teacher helped me though this year and helped me love school I just want to move out but they think I am going to quit school uggg I am sooo upset I just wish they would let me

Answer #3

hm..sounds like you have tried pretty much everything..I guess just try telling your parents to give you more independence at your home right now, more responsibilities and such, thats all I can really think of… hope everything goes well!

Answer #4

you’ve already proved that you had a good head on your shoulder straight A’s and a job. I think you need to just sit down and have a serious tlk with her. your willing to pay for everything on your own and there are so many people out there that rely on their parents for everything and your willing to do it on your own they should be happy for you. not leaving you trapped between moving out with no car or staying there for the rest of your life I hope they decide to let you go live your own life you deserve it=]

Answer #5

IM NOT PREGNANT IM NOT IM NOT I JUST WANT TO MOVE OUT

Answer #6

first of all your 18 and its time for you to do what you want I read you question your pregnant right that makes you more of an adult some parents dont want there kids to end up like them so they try and shelter them when really they shud just let them go if they are off age im about to be 19 I had my son when I was 16 my boyfriend askd me to marry him two weeks later and my mom said no and now we are getting ready to move out if it dont works its like you live and you learn other wise you will forever be at home…good luck

Answer #7

LOL girl you do not know what stress is yet… you’re an unwed mother to be that alone shows you are not responsible… because if you were responsible you would not be pregnant… right now you have your parents looking after all your needs including paying for the car you are driving…you have no bills all you really have to do I continue to finish your education…right now life is easy and pretty much stress free … but like most teen you will learn that lesson the hardway hopefully without having to make coices like prostituting yourself out/ stripping etc inorder to have enough money to pay the rent or buy the babys food or having childrens aid come in and take your child away because your not responsible enough or cannot provide for it’s needs

I was a single mom due to divorce left with a 9 month old child to raise alone… do you have any idea how tough it is trying to support yoursellf a child, pay day ,, go to school go to work and then home to look after a child till bedtime and then study… I was living on about 4 hours sleep a night… that is if I was lucky that the baby did not wake up… and you only have a high school education .. what kind of job are you going to get that will provide enough for rent/ food and clothing for you and the baby .. all the furniture.. dishes..pots/pans , blankets, towels, cable, phone, internet also you will need to pay childcare while at work .. you will be lucky if you can afford Mr. Noodles and peanut butter sandwich to eat never mind have money for gas, insurance, repairs for a car.. but if you are lucky you can afford to take the bus instead of having to walk. and forget being able to go out… because you won’t have money left over for that …not that you would really feel like going out anyway even if you did have the money.. as you will be too exhausted and worn out to enjoy yourself.

Being I have done the single parent poverty bit(12 years worth before I landed a really good paying job) if I was in your shoes I would be praying the mom and dad would be letting me stay with the baby until I graduated from university and had a decent paying paying job before getting my own place so I would have a lot less stress on my shoulders and that I could have some help with the baby especially when they are younger and so I could have a break just to be able to sleep of a full 8 hours without interruption

Answer #8

…the onlii thiinq that I ckan say to yhew is…Keep On Tryinq to convince them …and iif someone else says that your pregnant and trying to move out im goinq to slap the CRAP outta them…I reall know how yhew feel when people says that …but any way …maybe just show them reality a lot by saying …like …the real life thiinqs that are goinq on with yew like…your responsible …yhew have the money for the place …yhew hang around a good crowd and …your still going to school but your going t need a car and …thinqs so every day you can go and see yhew…!!! I dont know you said yhew dont lie so I dont know waht else to sayto them… Hope my advice Heple… …Moe…

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