What to do about my girlfriend almost being raped?

Ok I ma 14 she is 14 and she called me up crying somedude 6 years older then her in her school tried to rape her. she is terifyed he is crazy he said hed kill her if she said comething what should I do. I was the only person she told.

Answer #1

You need to report it or tell someone, regardless of any threat he may have made, otherwise he will get away with it and be able to try and do the same thing again to someone else.

Answer #2

Ok, I really dont think you can do much if he is considerably older than both of you guys, I would consider, reporting it as an anonymous source, just to protect her, and make sure she stays out of his way, and does not find herself in it… :]

Answer #3

I think you need to talk to her make her feel safe and calm her I thinku should hold her and make her feel better talk to her let her vent and just listen

Answer #4

sometimes girls say stuff to get attention and no matter how hard she was crying you cant be positive that she was just telling you that for attention. see how she reacts when you tell her that you plan on confronting an adult about it. if shes all like “nooo dont please” then she MIGHT have just made it up. trust me, girls will do anything for attention. especially ones around her age. but if shes not lying personally id just let it go.

Answer #5

alllright buddy, you have two options that you must choose from, she told you and thats it. So now its up to you. 99% of the time the threat that Fcker made is bullsht. He threatened her because he’s scared. So you need to talk her into reporting it. Tell her straight up, do you want that guy to do that to someone else, because next time it won’t be an almost got raped. Or you can take matter into your own hands, the 14 year old me would have put a knife to that F*ckers throat

Answer #6

right now all I can say is that she needs as much comfort as possible, she’s probably stilll tramatized about it especially since he treatened her, she trusted to confide in you because she feels that she can trust you, now wud be a bad time to show her that you cannot be trusted, she needs help in order to look beyond it and focus on her future, things like that is like a burden that will scare her for the rest of her life if she doesnt look past it

Answer #7

If you feel that it is true you have to report it to whom it behoves to.

Answer #8

you tell her to get a protection order against her I had to do it

Answer #9

Don’t panic! The worst thing you can do for her is get panicy and start say your going to beat his face in. Comfort her, tell her it over now. She sould tell her parents (I mean this can’t happen again). When this happened to me I tranfered schools. So just tell her to tell her parents. It’s best for the both of you.

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