Why does my girlfriend only kiss me when we are wasted?

she said that she was raped by her uncle and later said the reason was because when she closed her eyes she might have a flashback cuz he used to kiss her. Before she told me the “truth” it was “oh I’m not comfortable doing it around other people” and “i get carried away and my grandma is just upstairs”. She did almost cry after kissing me once and said she had a flashback but then last night we got TOASTED 100 proof gin we were like a normal couple we were kissing, actually kissing. The next day i brought her to the beach it was gone in the blink of an eye she must have kissed me 100 times with little pecs not one single real kiss it sucked cuz i thought it was over. Could someone please give me some kind of advice?

Answer #1

give her some time. let her know that your not going to do the same thing as her uncle let her know that you are there for her…. let her know that you love and care for her..

Answer #2

Has she had any counseling?

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