I'm getting married in a week and not sure if I love him.

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I’ve been with my boyfriend for over 10 years. We have a house together and two dogs. We lived together for 3 years now. Recently I have been asked by someone if I love my boyfriend. I could not bring myself into saying ‘yes’. Even when my boyfriend tells me he loves me I cannot say the same. I’m not sure if there is something wrong with me. We don’t argue and everything is easy going. But I’m just wondering if I’m just in a business relationship sometimes. The sexual relationship is not that great, once or twice a month at best. We are both our first. Recently I have been thinking if I’m in the relationship only to please others such as parents and friends. I’m just so confused and not sure who to ask for help.

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Answer #1

Wow ok before you do anything… stop and take time to think about yourself really this happens all the time and then your married and wake up and want to get out of it, for just a reason that you are not sure of But it doesnt feel right for you. And then you will have to go through the whole divorce and everything. Call off the wedding and take time for yourself… really do this you will be gratefull you did it… dont worry about anyone else i mean it. this is you and you rhave to think about yorself..

Answer #2

Okay. If you arent sure if you love him DONT marry him to please others. Because people wouldnt marry someone they dont love to please you. Do what you want, if you dont love him and dont want to marry him then simply DONT. Its your decision, not your family and friends. Live your life the way YOU want to. Good Luck.

Answer #3

So what happened, did you marry him or not?

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