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How do I get him to love me again?

We’ve been together for 8 months. About two months ago, I had sex for the first time with him. Since then, he’s been treating me like sht and I don’t understand why. It wasn’t right after we did it, but a couple weeks after, maybe. I’ve never been afraid of him hurting me physically, because I know he would never; but emotionally he does. He gets pised off if I even talk to another guy, and he actually yells at me. It’s like he needs to have things his way, and when I do what he wants me to do, he’s still not completely satisfied with me. I’ve actually cried before because he was being such a jerk, and he pretty much told me to shut up. If I’m so repulsive, why doesn’t he just break up with me? What makes it horrible is that I can’t stop loving him no matter how hard I try. I don’t want us to break up. I’d rather spend time with him than my own friends. I just want to know how to get things back to the way they used to be. Any suggestions?

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Answer #1

I have the same exact problem with my boyfriend! I love him so much and lately hes been a complete jerk and I feel like I am the only 1 trying to make things work. I dont know whatt I did wrong and he is very controlling. ughh cant deal with drama..well I hope your relationship gets bettr

Answer #2

he doesn’t love you as much as you love him, it’s too late to change that position now, you are stucked.

the only way to ‘win’, it’s now breaking up with him first and he will come crawling back to you.

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