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Should I stick around and wait for him?

I dated this guy for four years, and broke up with him for someone else. However,we had grown distant months before I was even attracted to the other guy; basically I had already checked out of the relationship way before I actually called things off. Now, a year and a half has gone by, we hadn’t spoke––he was extremely hurt, until two weeks ago we had to meet up for a mutual friends birthday party. We caught up, hit it off, and have been inseparable for two weeks. I’m obviously single now. He tells me he loves me and has never been happier, and the next minute he tells me he would never be with me again. I have never felt this deeply in love with anyone. It’s completely different from the first time we dated. Should I stick around and see if will eventually want to be with me again? We are already basically falling back in love with each other. Help!

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Answer #1

He loves you, that doesnt mean he forgives you for what you did to him. If he says he would never be with you again, why wouldnt you believe him? Loving someone, and wanting them back doesnt necessarily go hand in hand. A year, and a half years later, and now you want him back? Hes gotten on with his life after that much time has passed, he knows he can survive without you. Why would he take you back after you commited yourself in the relationship for 4 years. then drop him like a hot potato? I wouldnt put my life on hold waiting for something that may never be again, but thats your choice.

Answer #2

What have you got to loose?? sometimes a spit then a reunite can rekindle the fire. so stick it out and the very best of luck to you both

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