Trouble finding a mature guy who will stick around

I’ve always been the type who went for the mature guys. Immature guys just make me mad. I don’t really know of any mature guys at my school.. they are all so immature.. it’s not even funny. So I go online.. tons of mature guys.. but they just end up breaking my heart and leaving me. is anyone else like that? I just like mature guys.. but they are no where to be found? I drive everyone away.. sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever get a real boyfriend.. and actually get married.. sigh Does anyone else feel this way?

Answer #1

My friends almost all of them their boyfriends are olders and they said the same as you that they don’t like inmature, just live your life and the guy will appear. Good luck.

Answer #2

One sure way is to stop looking. You’re trying too hard. When you just stop looking, somehow he appears.

But, why do you feel like you have to have a man? Enjoy life and your friends while you’re still young. It’s an old saying but I’m old and it’s true ‘You’re only young once’.

Answer #3

Give it some time, when you get a little older the guys wont be completely idiotic. You will find the right person eventually. It will just take a little time and patience.

Answer #4

I agree with kat, and that you should just stop worrying and looking around!! - and sooner or later mr.right may just appear!! I have a few of my friends that go out with older guys, since they seem to be more mature and experienced in life… but the problem with those relationships are that the guys normally look down on them and take advantage of them… so it has some of its cons!! - honestly… I like guys that are around my age better…just because we are on the same page in life… I noe some of them are so damn immature… but they grow out of that stage as they get older!! just live life to the fulliest in the mean time…and take things slow…and like I said, don’t look for him… he’ll look for you!! ♥

Answer #5

Change the places where you ate searching got males. Go where they are, you should be likely to find them. Kind of like the movie, Field Of Dreams. Instead of building a baseball field, build a mature social group or find 1 to be involved with. Finding the quality of guy you seek from this point shouldn’t take long! At least you’ll have chances with the type of guys you think that you are yearning for.

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