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Do some relationships start with one not liking the other?

There’s this guy who I just want to be friends with because I dont want a relationship right now, I think dating someobe for a long period of time is stupid because then you can’t really see how other people are like or go on little dates with them. I did date someone for a long time and Im upset I did. Well this guy (who I just want to be friends with and told him so) wants to be more than friends, I mean he knows I just want to be friends but still basically acts likes he wants to date me. Like if I didnt call him he`ll be like why didnt you call?… but kinda in a joking around kinda way too. Some of my friends say the this guy and me might be good for each other cause we can talk about just everything. I dont know I think part of the reason I dont like him like that is because he is so nice to me… werid I know… but Im used to guys not calling and not being so nice. Do you think some relationships start out like this?? what do you think I should do?

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Definitely. My bf and i use to act like cat and dog before we got together. But the fact that he wasn’t like every other guy whose always flirting and stuff, he was appealing. i liked the fact that he wasn’t extra nice to me like the other guys who just want something. I guess you could call it like some kinda challenge but it was wothwhile. I’m not sure if this answers your question… but i tried.

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