How can you start liking a guy again?

ok, so there is this guy I’ve been liking for quite a long time, like 3-4 months. I’ve even cried about him and all. and yes I do still have feelings for him. But now, as I talk to him more and stuff I kind of have an idea that he likes me back. and yeah, im quite happy about it. but when we talked online one day, some of the things he said kind of turned me off. and I dont feel as if I like him as much as I did. but I want to like him like I use before b/c hes such a nice guy. im just confused whether I like him or not.

Answer #1

The chances are, if something can put you off him, then you don’t like him that much. Think of it as a good thing you have been talking to him like this as at least you have uncovered something you do not like about him now, before you started dating. If you had started going out with him and then started to dislike him it would be really complicated and there would be more feelings involved. I say keep this one as a friend and look elsewhere for relationships as you should not have doubts already.

Answer #2

I think you should talk to him more often then you’ll see the real him. Then you can make a better decision whether to keep on liking him or stop. Hope it helps

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