I have sinned big time

that is very wrong bt God forgives those who are truly sorry.I believe you should pray and wait for God to give you an answer.plus,what if you get married to that person.r you sure he want do the same thing that he is doing to his wife.

adultery: intercourse by a married person with someone other than their spouse - the bad news, yes, it is a sin - the great news is you can be forgiven but it’s up to you, if you’d like to know how: http://www.jesus2020.com/video.html

I wish you the best !!

I’m sorry that ‘fau above’ has such a severe view.

My point was that times change, as do acceptable standards. And in most places in the Western world today we find people doing things that weren’t acceptable only some decades earlier. (In my school in the 1950s there was only one girl of divorced parents, as far as I know.)

If we were to ostracize or condemn all the people who have committed adultery (by whatever definition) or otherwise broken the moral rules that we personally may hold, I fear the world would be a sadder (and smaller) place.

People who are in doubt - as the fau-questioner obviously is - need our love and understanding, not condemnation.

I don’t get it… fau… asks a question… then answers herself???

ps - recall the words of Christ, in John 8:7 - surely a better example to follow than condemnation?

If you feel bad about it, then don’t do it anymore.