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I hate my stepdad

I hate my step dad, he hates it when I get attenion off my mum (which I dont have nomore) because he takes it all And he treats his own kids sooo differnt and my dad doesnt love me and isnt here for me, older brother and sister have moved out and live 20 minutes away and I have no family, my mums madley in love with her boyfriend and I have nobody, and it aint jelousy, because I aint, just he treats me so bad, we moved into his house, and I had to have small tiny box room when theres a massive spare room, and sasha and luke his kids have a massive room? And I aint alound to have a pink blanket on my bed he said it doesnt look right? And just a minute ago I was talking to my mum and he told me to “piss off upstairs” my mum dont notice this, shes thinks its normal, ?! And I dont no what to do, I just crnt wait till im 16 and move out! Its depressing! Im 14 next week,,, I just don’t no wt to do (n)

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Answer #1

Do not turn goth, and do not run away. Try to get some help, in your case, probably at school from a counselor.

Answer #2

I know you feel like your mom and real dad don’t care but try talking to them. Also don’t count out your older brother and sister let them now whats going on and how you feel. I want through a similar thing and what I did is sit my mom down and tell her “ I know you really love so and so and I want you to be happy but I’m not. He keeps saying odd things to me and…” and go from there telling her how you feel.

Don’t run away. Thats not the answer. But letting these people know how you feel is. If you run away it will make you look like the problem and not the step dad. Talk to your older siblings your dad and your mom. Heck, why not your step siblings? Mine ended up being on my side. You never know.

Answer #3

ok tell him if he cant treat you right then tell him it will be the last time and if he does it again then run away in the middel of the night go stay at a friends house or just leave dont let ihm treat you like a kid gget the hell out if he cant treat you nice then leave my friend molly which is be side me now is running away tonite she s getting fed upwid all the girls in my class the always startin bullshit but like I said get out or turn goth

sarah

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