I gave head to a guy that wasnt my boyfriend and have questions.

At 14, you dont know what your getting yourself into by “having fun” with some boy who doesnt even like you! I’m sorry that you were abused, but you are in a sense being abused by doing what your doing with a boy whos ONLY using you for his own selfish pleasure! You know he doesnt like you, so why are you so willing to give him what he wants? Its only going to make you feel lower than you already do about yourself. Save this kind of behavior for a boy who is commited to you, and loves you, not just use you as his boy toy!

honestly you should wait you will regret it when your older and find the right person =) hope you didnt give in to his shit men suck just be your self and dont give a shit what people say bc if he wants it so bad tell him to go fuck off and get it some where else … the only place your head should go is in the book girl trust me men are gay im 18 I know what im talking bout

lighten up!!! you only live once and you could die tomoz,. anyways you can get preganant from blow job.

yhh.. I actually want to have sex or somthing with him and he does with me, its just for all the wrong reasons..

Because hes nice, you want to give him what he wants? That is NOT the way to win any boys heart! Its only making you look desperate that you are willing to do whatever it takes to get him to like you. You are looking for love, and being easy is NOT going to get you any.

Why would you have sex with someone who isnt commited to you? Where/what do you think its going to get you? Never give a boy the benefits most boys have to be in a relationship to get! You will only be setting yourself up for a broken heart, and a very lonely llfe.

In my Book any guy who tries to make you do something your not sure off is not worth the air he breathes. I respect all Girls, It is her choice weather she wants to swallow, spit or stop before I cum. I never ask a girl to do anything she is not comfortable with. Your only 14 & have your whole life ahead of you so dont be worrying about him. You are way too young to be worrying about one boy. There will be plenty of Boys you like who fancy the pants of you. Enjoy your teenage years with Boys who like & respect you, Dont waste them on a looser like that. You will learn & enjoy it so much more with a Boy who likes you, respects you & you feel very comfortable with. The best Sex is between two people who really fancy, trust, respect & feel comfortable with each other, as you will both have no inhabitions you can discuss what you both like & what you want to try. Discovering each others body together is amazing. Dont expect fireworks on the first night but after a few times, when the trust is there, you both know each others bodies, what you both like & dont like, What really turns each of you on, Thats when you will let your hair down & go for it & the earth will move for you both, trust me. Sex in that situation is mind blowing, You wont be able to get enough of each other & when you gaze into his eyes you will feel the most intimate, earth shattering, heart pumping & intense love you have ever felt. Your teenage years will fly by quicker than you can you say teenager, You will be 20 before you know it, Your Body will look the best it ever will so please savour & relish it with someone who appreciates it & try to spend your teens having as much fun as you can possibly have,

yh I can see your point but I really like him and hes a nice person so I want to give him what he wants. I feel crap anyways and when im with him he makes me feel wanted and distracts me from home…

I agree with markpg28 and angelfire2608. I have a friend who just had sex with her boyfriend and regrets it. She says she loves him and that he cares about her, but he won’t even try having a conversation with her. She always does what he wants and never what she wants. Don’t be like this. Most guys only look for one thing with a girl that they don’t love or like: Sex. A notch in the belt, so to speak. It isn’t worth having sex with a guy who isn’t committed to a relationship. If you do and get pregnant, the uncommitted guy will just run off. Waiting for a few years to meet different guys is the best option.