I dont like my mom's boyfriend? (read)

first it if you cant have men in the house then you need some serios counsling for what happen to you when you were young its a serperate issue from this boyfriend thing and you need to tell your mom exactly how feel express it respectfully tell her you want to be apart of things and you dont feel that thiers any faimly their and ask your mom aslo how she feels . tell her you want more of a relationship from her and give her examples of what she does that hurts you .leave her boyfriend aside she is a adult should be able to figure that part out it sounds like she doesnt know how to balance her time and that she is bieng selfish but she may not mean to .if this doesnt work you need to speak to some one you trust and tell them what you tell your mom and granparent would be good aunt uncle some one you think that she will listen too and if that doesnt work go to your school and tell them whats giong on and ask for counsling for your self and for them to speak to your mom with you their. and see then after that if you and your mom can get counsly just have an adult help you get it it may help if you and your mom cant reslove anything never keep it inside friends can help and friends parents who are respectfull of you and trusting but you deffinalty need to talk to some one at school about what happened when you were little and get it addressed becouse that has noithing to do with her current boyfriend but something that can disrupt your life extremely .so thiers 2 reasons for counseling but keep trying to talk to your mombut be nice about it so she hopefully listens too you.I sure she loves you and iam sure you have faimly or friends that love you so speak up.