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How can I show them I didn't do anything?

One day I didn’t have any school and my boyfriend didn’t know I was home so he wasn’t able to come to my house. A couple of my brother’s friends came looking for him and people in the neighborhood were watching and they told my uncle that I have a lot of boys around the house! From then on every body start talking about it and am feeling all the stress cause I didn’t do anything! I do not go out at night. I never used to but at a certain time now am allowed on the phone and plus i have nobody on my side. My mother left me when I was 3 months old and I always think about her. I hardly see my Dad.

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Answer #1

hey. dont worrie about it. i mean if you want to get on here sometime and talk with me you can. i would love to give advice. i mean long as you know and the man above know you didnt do nothing then dont worrie. i mean if they dont believe you tell them to ask the boys who they was looking for. but if you need someone to talk to you can call me if you have long distance my number is thats my cell number im here for you if you need someone to talk to.

Answer #2

If you have an aunt or sister, uncle, friends, etc, tell them. Go to a counsler and talk about your stress. Rumors are never nice, and can be painful. If people are saying these things, don’t waste your time thinking about them. They’re big fat losers, and they shouldn’t be staring at your house anyway. Are these old people, they are the ones who are most nosey. And you have a brother, right, so of course there will be guys! I mean your brother would obviously invite his guy friends to hang, so it doesn’t mean that your doing anything!!!!

Answer #3

shae_shae15, Do you not have a female in the family you can talk with? If not when you return to school ask to see the counsellor there. When you belong to a single parent home and when this parent is not around a lot they tend to be overly suspicious. Part is their guilt for not being at home with their family when they should be. So your father sounds like he can be very hard on you because he is worried you will get into trouble. You stll need to speak with him and talk it out. Sue…good luck

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