Why doesn't my Mom show me love?

Its like ever since she got with this guy (Who Is NOt MY DAD!) shes embarrassed to show she loves me, she doesn’t hug me, kiss me or anything like that shes just not like a mom if you get what I meen, does anyone have any ideas why this is?

Answer #1

Whatever the reason, I would write her a note/letter letting her know exactly how you feel - that you miss those small things that mean sooo much…Good luck !!

Answer #2

I’v Done The Letter Thing She Rit One Back Telling Me I Was Stupid To Think That I She Doesn’t Love Me, As I’v Grown Older I’ve Think She Just Doesn’t Want To Love Me Incase I Reject Her.?

Answer #3

communication is always the keymton any type of a relationship…just let her know how you are feeling not only is it the best and fastest way to get results ( sometimes not the ones you want) it almost alwas brings you closer to the person in whom you are dealing with at the least you will have a better understanding of eachother and you will feel a lot better too.If any thing you will feel better.

I am really sorry that your Mother is actting like this but at the least be glad that she still talks to you…my Mother and I don’t talk…and our relationship is a lot worse off then yours all over a man too though…it is amazing what a person will do for love…remember that when you meet a guy and think what would you value more your Family or Partner? IF you are married keep in mind your Partner is a part of your family …but in my view just as important as and valueable as your childern they just play different roles is all…

Most Mothers always place their childern first in almost everything and they do it out of love…God places it in us really instinctly…love is a very powerful thing though…the same thing that drives a person to lay down their lives for some they love drives them to love…SHE DOES LOVE you..no matter what…SHE DOES…I am thinking that she does not relize how hurt you are You should tell her..

Good LUck

Answer #4

I totally agree with “amblessed”. Let her know in one way or another. I know we all like different ways of having love shown to us. Let her know how you most feel loved. Some like to have time spent with them. Some like to be shown by hugging. Some like to be told they are loved. Maybe you should initiate saying “I love you”.
Good Luck

Mama K

Answer #5

am sorry to hear this , I have a non comunication with my mother as well, and I tried calling her and seeing her but it seems she dosent put much unto it herself,so I guess you should just let her have her space and rember not to treat your child like that when there older, cause you seen how hurtful it can be, and if there one thing I learned is that you cant force and shouldnt either force anyone to spend time with you nor try to make them be what you want them to be by pressure best thing to is let it be and know that you tried to take certain steps and thats all.

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