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i cant be away from my wife

hi ya, im not sure if im doing this right but here goes. i have a lot of mental worries ,i find it very hard to go out and be in the company of other people but my wife is the opposite,she love clubbing and im very insecure, im so much in love with her im running out of ideas on how to keep her she says she loves me and she wants to stand by me in my time of need but also says she will still go out without me. so how can she really love me if she wont stand by me and stop doing the things that upset me? i know i sound really selfish but i need her 24/7 and im running out of ideas to hang on to her. very scared steve.

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Answer #1

The answer is simple: being together all the time, day and hight, etc, may be boring for an adult person. Only babies depend so much on one attendant person that they cry immediately when the attendant disappears from the field of vision. Even, some of the 5 y old braver kids like to beetle off time to time, just for fun/curiosity/wanderlust/etc.

Answer #2

How were you when you were dating her? You are acting like an insecure, obsessive, and controlling teenager! Shes your wife, not your gf anymore. Its very healthy for 2 people to spend time apart. That doesnt mean she loves you less! If you insist on trying to keep her under your thumb 24/7, you will lose her. Just because you are married doesnt mean you “own” your wife. If she didnt love you, wouldnt she have married you? Controlling behavior can become worse, and if you dont trust your wife, then you dont have much of a marriage. You need to look at why you are such an insecure person, and get to the core of the problem before it gets worse!

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