What will my parents say if I have a baby?

Why Not just wait till he is done with school and get married you can plan for marriage and a baby in the mean time think it all out and get ready…tell me what is the rush here? you have your hole life..by waiting you respect both him and your parents. ,… it will not hurt you either.

Sounds like your boyfriend has the right idea. He loves you, listen to him, and when the time is right, you and he will probably make wonderful parents.

Is it so hard to get married first? I’m sure your parents would love to have a grandchild that isn’t born out-of-wedlock.

Marry your boyfriend first, then bring it up again to him. Quit insisting that you’re ready for a baby until you actually have a full-time decent-paying job - which you can rarely get without a college degree. So buckle up and finish school first. Then we’ll talk.

Well, having a baby is a wonderful thing, but here’s some other things to think about…

Morning sickness Swollen feet and ankles Ouch! My aching back! The joys of labor and delivery. Dirty diapers. Never ending dirty diapers Never being able to sleep through the night A teething baby The “Waaah Waaah Waaah” of a crying baby Being soley responsible for a helpless little infant Not being able to ‘pick up and run’ whenever you want to Hiring and paying a babysitter Feeding, clothing, providing health insurance for the baby…takes a lot of $$

Your life is not your own after you have a baby…are you really willing to give all that up at the age of 18? Is your boyfriend? After all, he has a stake in this too and it sounds like he wants to wait until he is ready for the responsibility.

amblessed your right! but how do I get it off my mine? I mean it is so hard to SO any ideas how i can not think about it all the time?I know that waiting is the right thing to do. but it’s like you know um you like this one candy and you say I am not going to eat that any more but you really really want it , and your try to think of something else but it just dont work your mind goes right back to the candy. its like the same thing here no matter what I think of I always go right back to the baby. SO HOW CAN I GET IT OFF MY MINE? HELP!!!

I have finich school I am Now a teacher’s aid. I was Homeschooled so that is why I fininshed early.

You are right about the wedlock thing, But How can I keep my mind off of having a baby? I mean it hard to, And I really Love my Boyfriend and it just still so hard to keep my mind off it but I cant. So so you have any idea how I can Keep from wonting a baby so much?

ya’ll all are right thanks guys !!!

Well, um, adults don’t kick and scream when they don’t get what they want.

You’re an adult. Start acting like one.