How should I tell my mom im bi ?and how do I no for sure that I am

start with your dad if your more of a daddy’s girl he will be more understanding if your close with your mom then tell her first so she can tell your dad or he can tell your mom if its the other way around… either way if its your biggest fear or your bothered over it the truth always come out to be honest its better them finding out from you rather then you gettin caught or they finding out by themselves or from someone else

Well that depends on your relationship with your mom and how open and accepting she is to the whole thing (which is usually not the easiest thing to know). I’d approach it carefully. It’s nice and everything to think that your parents must accept it, and I dont want to scare you, but some times kids have had pretty harsh consequences for disclosure, so this boils down to your relationship with your mom, only you know her well enough to tell…

And you’re 14, so there’s no way to tell you’re bi, and I, it’s a label that doesnt mean much anyways… So you may be interested in girls… It may be a curiosity, it may be that you really are into girls, you’re way to young to know for sure, and unfortunately there’s no test you can take… do you have a GLBTQ group/club in your school? do you know anyone who is gay or bi? if not try online, get in touch with people and talk to them. Most have them have been where you are. Almost all of them have questioned themselves. You tend to find people who are real sympathetic because they’ve been there and they get it. And it doesnt matter what you end up being or what label you pick at the end of the day, that’s why they’ve put the Q at the end, it’s for questioning…

if you really are attracted to girls then youre bi…but if you were, then your know for sure.

you should try it out, and see if you can be in a regular relashionship with a girl..

as for your mom, you just need to tell her- if she might get upset about it then there really is no easy way to tell her, you just have to do it. and trust me, you’ll feel sooo much better.

but if she wont get upset then no sweat- and I know this isnt easy, I told my dad only a few months ago but everything went great, and now im so glad that I did.

if you like only girls your lesbian, and just talk to her about sexuality ask her questions, you dont have to tell her about your view, but maybe her advice could help you