How I lost a friend because of a secret! Help?

Why would you not be friends with her because of that? Did it even remotely impact your life? It’s in the past, for one, so you should be thankful that the person even trusted you with the secret. It’s not like she’s whoring herself around town. The fact is that kids get curious around that age, and they end up seeking out answers to questions they have about changes in their body. What your friend did is more normal than you may realize (to a degree), so I don’t see any reason to just stop being friends with her or something crazy like that. You can be shocked or whatever, but don’t be judgmental. If she thought that was how you would react, she would have never trusted you with that sort of information in the first place.

And by the way, my advice above would apply even if she had full blown sex because I don’t believe in the thin lines between sex, almost sex, oral sex, dry humping, etc. It’s all the same to me.

no problem, hope she forgives you and wasnt too hurt by it :) good luck :)

yeah I agree thanks guys you have helped I have talked to her where fine and she was very upset the was crying about and really didn’t want to be alive because of it :( but we had a long talk. thanks guys <3

thanks so much! I will talk to her today about it. you’re right I can’t stop been her friend for something stupid :) thanks a lot xx

Okaaayyy

Havent you made mistakes? So why stop being friends with someone who made one when she was younger. Tha is the past, and I think that you must have ment a lot to her if she had told you what considered her secret. You should be friends with her, I bet if that was you, you would be feeling horrable, and ashaed, and you would probobly be telling yoursel what a horable pearson you are. So don’t let her think that and be her friend, we all make mistakes.