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have I lost my Best Friend?

Last night I went to my best friend house and we hugged like we always do when we see each other as friends but then I tried to kiss her and I mean a real kiss like a snog.

I really really fancy her and feel like I’m falling in love with her and that’s something is wrong with me. I even think of her when I masterbate and wish it was her doing it to me.

Now she is not talking to me or answering her phone so have I just lost my best friend for life?

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Answer #1

You might have thrown her off a little bit. Give it a bit of time, but I do suggest speaking wth her about it. Don’t come on to forceful, just be mature about it. Tell her how you feel, (minus the masterbation bit) and let her know that even if she doesn’t feel the same way about you, you can still be mature enough to accept her as a friend.

Answer #2

I hope so as she as a real good friend and don’t want to lose her. I’m so upset about it and scared I have.

Do I tell her I fancy and love her?

Answer #3

I wouldn’t say I love you to her. You can tell her you like her, but that if she is uncomfortable with it, you do still wish to be her friend. Your general intentions need to be made clear here. Tell her you like her, and then apologize for making her feel uncomfortable. Explain that if she does not want you in the same way you want her, then you will accept her anyway you can take her. Even as a friend. This woul be the most mature way of handling it. I do wish you luck.

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