how do you appear more approachable?

How do you become more approachable? Not many people want to talk to me. It’s not like I’m ugly, or obscenely smelly(or regular smelly for that matter :) ) I guess I just give off the “go away” vibe. How do you change that?

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Answer #1

I changed my clothing look, hair styles put more make up on andd perfume and I became flirty lmao = ^insecure^ Look at me, smell me, and listen to me! Discretion is still the better part of valor. I’m with ichibanarky … smile sweetly and be natural. also take an interest in what other people know and do. everybody’s favorite subject tends to be themselves. approach them about them (their activities)… they’ll love you for it, but not if they think you’re high maintenance and have to be made to smile. plenty of opportunity to laugh after you get to know that they are funny. take the focus off of yourself and show interest in those you want to attract.

Answer #2

u shud try going up to people instead and talk more don’t b shy or anything either just b u…n yea you shud smile =)

Answer #3

I changed my clothing look, hair styles put more make up on andd perfume and I became flirty lmao

Answer #4

A sure sign that you don’t do it often enough :)

Smiling should feel natural.

Answer #5

Try smiling…people always seem more approachable when they smile.

Answer #6

I feel fake when I smile, unless something makes me laugh.