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Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year and a half. As you know, sex life is important to a relationship. I had low self esteem so I wouldnt really spice it up or talk dirty or anything and thats what he likes. my self esteem has grown a lot and I always wanna just scream out stuff during sex but I cant because somebody is always home. Today he called me boring and said he wish he had a girl who wasnt shy because this is important and that hes bored with me sex-wize. This bothered me because I was planning on going nuts the next time we were alone and surprising him but now he said that itd just be weird if I was like that and he wouldnt be able to take me serious.. what am I supposted to do with a boyfriend who is bored with me having sex.. I want him to take it serious and me to be able to say stuff. How do I make it not weird and make it sexy I want to turn him on I need help please asap!

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tell him someones home im not gunna go all out. he shouldnt tell you your boring and all. but to spice it up a bit do scream even if someones home BUT put your hands over your mouth and only scream loud enough for him to hear not everyone. also small things like just tellin him to pull your hair…(if you like that) or simply saying “yah” or “oh” in a soft tone when hes doing something you like so he knows what pleases you. starting off with that will alow you to open up a little bit and feel more comfortable. My boyfriend of now has had sex with a lot of girls (not bragging, thats kinda gross) but I was afraid when he took my virginity because I wasnt wild or really open about all that. the more you do it though you do get very comfortable. and talk to him about the whole boring thing. =0]

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