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I have never been good with initiating things…and I never know what to do when we are messing around. What are some easy things I can do to turn him on during likr foreplay and even during sex?

I haven’t gotten to the point where I am comfortable with oral yet…so if we can skip past things like that, that would be good lol…

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Answer #1

The key is confidence! Maybe get yourself a drink (if you are of age). Play some sexy music like R. Kelly or make a cd with sexy songs that get you in the mood. Dance for him (you’ve gotta have that confidence there though). When I want to initiate things, I dance for my boyfriend and he just melts. I put on some slow Maxwell “Til the cops come knocking” and he goes crazy! Your man is going to feed off of what you do. Tell him, “baby let me take control”… kiss his neck, then nibble on his ear and massage his “area”! Tell him how you want him and then you kiss him. Engage in a deep passionate kiss, you take his clothes and your clothes off and then you hop on top! What better way to take control then hop on top! This may sound crazy but the best roleplaying I’ve ever done was acting like a young helpless girl with two ponytails in my head and he was a big scary man coming to take advantage of me. He made me take off all of my clothes and beg for mercy then told me what I “had” to do for him. It was all in fun! You don’t have to do oral just yet if you’re not ready but a good old striptease and the “take control, this is my piece” method will work just fine. Love your body, love yourself, and you’ll do great!

Good luck!

Answer #2

ok kissing on the neck works or wear sum then sexxy nd make sure ur shinny rub baby oil on guys lykk that.

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