Should casual sex turn into anything else?

Go ahead babe, go and express your feeling, that is the best thing to do in this world after the thing which you have been all ready doing.

Tricky situation.

I think though that you like him a lot more then you say. Putting yourself in a situation where your thinking about having a relationship with him does speak for itself. The real problem though is the lack of openness the two of you have. It seems as though you two can manage to confuse the hell out of each other. Its not a good thing and communication is the basis of all relationships. According to what your saying, he’s made it very clear that he doesn’t want the relationship to expand to something else. I feel though that what you guys have already is pretty much a relationship.

I have a feeling that the guy your having this relationship with is fearful about commitment and just doesn’t see himself in the aspect of having a relationship. I’m curious though as to why he’s so fearful about falling in love? Isn’t that something that everyone wants to do happily? Maybe he is unsure of what you feel towards him since you said your not very affectionate towards him. I know that you tried to express it to him before and he told you to calm down but why not try it when he is expressing it to you. Having that mutual feeling type of thing.

This is really entirely up to you though, its his trust factor thats really putting to question the openness of the relationship. If he can trust you enough to fall in love with you then you pretty much accomplished what you wanted and your free to fall in love with him. How you do that though is another thing thats up to you, I don’t know your partner as well as you do. I’m not sure if you want to conform with what you have but I would give it a try I feel that hes worth the shot. If anything happens out of place then you can just go back to your normal relationship as it was. It helps to have his cooperation with this though. Its your feelings that your trying to express and I hope he is understanding off the topic.

Hope this helps.