How do I tell my mom my dad molested me??

Feel free to write it down, but keep a copy in case she tears it up, and keep in mind that a lot of mothers do not respond well when told that their husband molests children. My fiance was molested and her mother refused to believe her, and told her she was making it up. Parents can be very selfish people.

It is more likely she will tell you that you were just confused and go talk to your father. Keep in mind that if she does that, then your father is going to take advantage of how nieve she is and play it up that you were just confused, and then attempt to confuse you as well. If that is the case, then I’m afraid you will have to resort to handing the letter to a school counselor or a police officer and telling them your mother wouldn’t listen.

Please, do something, though, as I can assure you if he is touching you at 14, then it is likely he did it when you were younger and you just don’t remember, and it is almost certain that he has been touching other children as well.

Don’t hold back on saying something, but also don’t be afraid to accept your father’s apology if he admits to it and admits that he has a problem. It is very likely he is a confused and suffering man if his sexual attention has been turned to children. This in no way excuses him, but if he is willing to work to better himself, then remain guarded from him doing it again, but also be open to him truely healing from this (but it is very likely he won’t heal unless he seeks professional help).

I’ll pray for you and I certainly hope your mother takes your side and protects you as she should.

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Source: Personal Experience