Telling my mom and dad

How do I tell my mom and dad that I have a boyfriend they wont let me have one and yet I still do. I really like this guy that I wanna tell my mom and dad what do I do???help please

Answer #1

my dad is so strict that I cant tell him nuttin… he does not not like me dating guys one bit but yet I still do

Answer #2

just wait until your mom and dad are ready.

Answer #3

if you really like this guy then you need to tell them.

which ever one you are closer to you should tell first. make sure you say good thing about him and it would make you feel a lot better if you tell them

Answer #4

just talk to them about how you think you are old enugh and mature enough to have one..make sure they can trust you…good luck

chrysta

Answer #5

I would basically explain to them that I have something to tell them and I hope they don’t get mad at me and start freaking out at me because I hate hiding things from them and I want to be honest with them. Its my only way of gaining trust. Than I would say, that I would love to experience life and see what its like to have a boyfriend. Show them that they can trust you, take the responsibility. Call home whenever you are out and make sure they know where you are, do chores without them having to ask you. Tell them good things about your boyfriend. Parents do not want to hear that a guy has been involved in crimes or likes to party or used to do this and that. Let them know how loyal he is and how polite and respectful he is. They might want to meet your boyfriend though, which is ok as well, but you got to respect your parents saying. From the view of it, you’ve got a lot of potentials. Build a bond with your family. Honestly, the easiest to build a bond with is your mother. Moms always knows whats best for their child. Start coming to her more for advice. Talk to her more often about life in general. You need to feel that you can tell her anything you want and not fear a single thing. Tell her how much you’re thankful for having her in your life. It will make her smile :)

Need anymore dating advice, you can always funmail me!

♥ xo.

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