How do I tell a bestfriend I don't see him any more than a friend?

thing is the guy I like is a lot like me in clothes wise,music wise and lots of other things. And the guy whose loves me knows I like my other best friend. I don’t know. I even used to date him because we were so alike…ahh

You tell him that you love him as a friend, but you don’t feel any romantic connection with him at all…

By the way, judging by what he’s told you; he sounds infatuated with you, perhaps even obsessed… kinda creepy…

I just don’t want to hurt his feelings thats all. But I don’t want to give him hope that I like him in that way either. Fu’k its hard.

Oh… so she wants to LIE to her friend? And have to lie AGAIN the next time it comes up? And the next time? And the next time? What kind of friend would that make HER?

Darling, his feelings ARE GOING TO BE HURT. You have to accept that fact, and just tell him straight. He’s your best friend, I think he deserves a little sincerity.

He’ll get over it.

Just tell him your not ready 2 b more than friends with him yet

No, no, no… DO NOT SAY ‘’YET’’

That’ll just lead him to believe he has a chance, and he’ll continue to pursue a relationship. If you aren’t interested in him, you SAY SO.

yeh I might do that, I don’t know why I don’t like him like that. Probably because he really isn’t into the things I like. If you have alook at my photos ul probs beable to see what I like just by my look. Him on the other hand is into jazz and things I really am not into. I wish I did like him more than a friend because he has a great personallity.

just over two years. So I don’t want to hurt h9is feelings. And the worst part itsmy other best male friend I like. And he is also best friends with him.:s

Well it should come as no suprise when you tell him then…

That’s not good

Okey, thankyou :)

Yeh What should I say next time he pours his heart out to me?

Yea ik ik

Yea but If you say “yet” it will make her friend feel better and I think that’s what she’s going 4

Well fun mail me and tell me what happens and good luck

Just tell him your not ready 2 b more than friends with him yet (y don’t you like him)