How do I tell my best friend no about us dating eachother?

((sigh)) I just found out that my bestfriend has a thing for me… He says he’s felt this way for a long time, but has tried to hold it in. I found him crying…omg, I hate seeing guys cry!! Ugh!! And that’s when he told me. The prob is, #1 I will never date anyone I consider my best friend…and #2 it isn’t in me to fall in love anymore…so I dont know what to do… I mean I love this guy…but I know im only gonna break his heart :( And that’s not what friends do… Some one please give me something!!!

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Answer #1

Tell him that your friendship with him is more important than a relationship and that the only thing dating each other will do is break a beatiful friendship. I mean if you don’t want to go out with him tell him you know it’s better to be knowed then to break his heart.

Answer #2

If you don’t want to be with him, tell him you would prefer to have only a friendship with him, and nothing more. If you feel like you’re going to hurt him, it’s really not a good idea to go further. You don’t want to ruin your friendship with him.

Answer #3

you should be honest with him and tell him exactly what you just said. or tell him your not ready for a relationship or something like that.

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