How do I reach an orgasem?

iam 16 as well and me and my girlfriend have had sex abit now. we are first timers to this so iam still not sure if I’ve gave her an orgasem. I’ve asked her and she says I think so, so iam abit confused. I’ve read the paros above and she as holded really tight nearly scartchin my back, but while this there was hardly any noise from her is this an orgasem or nearlly an orgasem or what let me no please :D c what you think x

Ok,so I don’t have a partner so I masturbate! I use an electric toothbrush on the brissle side on my clit and lay down on my bed with back on bed, waist on edge, feet on floor and put it on high speed and go up and down fast but NO pressure! Orgasm is extreme pleasure and lead to some spasm like feel in your vagina.

[P.S. put baby oil on the toothbrush for a nice, sex like feel and no pain]

try masterbation to see what you like… the more you know your own body, the more you will be able to help your partner pleasure you. Women take longer than men to reach orgasm. Women will rarely reach orgasm by sex alone, unless he is wearing something to stimulate the clit as well… Alternate methods of massage…

in time u will,u have 2 do it more to reach it

Have you ever had orgasm, e.g. by yourself?

an orgasm is a state of extreme pleasure.. for both male and females.

Females haev an orgasm when they’re hit on their g-spot and excessively, ( it also depends on women, some women orgasm quicker, whiles others take time) …

the way to know if yah havin an orgasm is when yah feel soo much pleasure and you start to hold on sooo tight and grab on.. so if your masturbatin or your mans fingerin u, and you grab on to say the sofa or and e thing… or if yah havin sex and you grab hold of his back and scratch him so intensely.. x

in an orgasm the vagina decreases by 30% and everythin becomes tight and congested..

oh and if your boyfriends fingerin u, tell him to take his time, go slow, take a pause every 2/3 strokes, the key to and e orgasm is ta massage the clit rather than the vagina.. x