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How do I make us figure eachother out again?

Okay so I am 14 and I love my boyfriend.

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year in a half. Lately I have been notcing that when he is mad at me, he doesnt confront me aobut it, he jsut acts all weird and doesnt do anyhting. So then I end up being like, “Whats wrong?” And keep asking and asking. But he keeps saying something is wrong. He has always been like this, never really telling me what is on his mind, but I always am really conformentational when it comes to him making me mad. and we fight and work it out. and thats how everything works. I know I cannot change him, but how can I make him realize that he can talk to me about things that make him mad. I have talked to him about this before and he says that I never do it but I do. and he also says that he just thinks it feels weird tlaking about problems. I was like well then how are you going to ever going to be able to fix anything. he says I dont know. alright?!

how can I make him realize that we need to communicate better? And he can tell me when something is making him mad? Guys please, I need your advice. thank you so much. :)

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Answer #1

Don’t get mad. Don’t even pay it any mind. In his eyes, it gets sorted out eventually so it works for him, even though you go through all the angst. Try ignoring it. If he doesn’t act like an adult and talk about it, then his issues wont get dealt with. He will learn quickly this wont help his cause. He will find a new way to communicate rather than waiting for you to snap and go “What the HELL is wrong!?”

Answer #2

Leave him. Bad communication ends all relationships.

Answer #3

just tell him that you’re there for him then walk away. he’ll come to you if he needs you.

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