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How do I make my annoying mother leave me alone?

I have nothing to hide from her, yet she is continuously on my case. The option of moving out has been terminated due to the fact that I'm not old enough to live out on my own. The woman is bloody annoying and gets under my skin everyday, if not every five hours. She expects me to be exactly like her, from the way she dresses to her favourite cereal. She's a Jehovah Witness, which, in all honesty, I detest. I'd tell her I have no interest in the religion, but I find myself incapable of doing so. Instead, I leave hints like the type of music I listen to openly, my group of friends that she won't even let me go shopping with, my taste in clothes, and by passing little comments that hint towards my being a homosexual.

She constantly complains about my upkeep, the way I cut my hair, my jobs around the house not being done "in the proper and perfected way", and all the way to little things like the scent of my body lotion. It's plainly obvious that I don't want anything to do with her, let alone be in the same room without. Recently, she took the lock off of my door and is currently threatening to take the door down all together just because I dislike leaving it open. Honestly, if you lived in my home while my grandmother was visiting from Jamaica, you'd keep your door closed too. They're both THAT annoying.

I have already tried finding a different home to live in, whether it be with close friends or my eldest sublings, but it will conflict with my education. The woman is WAY to hard on me and constantly compares to me to other people's children, openly mocks me, lashes insults at me, and repeatively calls me a hypochondriac, which is completely incorrect. I'm only thirty-two days shy of my fiftteenth birthday, which I can't even enjoy or celebrate due to the fact that she's a Jehovah Witness. Though I am young, I've seen over twenty different doctors. I've been diagnoised recently with; scoliosis, fibromyalgia, the Arnold Chiari Malformation Type Two, chronic depression, sleeping insomnia, abnormal fatigue, Lyme disease, mononuecleosis (Which I got from abnormal levels of stress, not kissing random people), and a strange swelling on my rib cage (All of which have been hidden for thirteen years of incredibly high pain toleration). Does that sound like a hypochondriac to you?

On top of her constantly putting me down and annoying the bloody crap out of me, I am the youngest in my family. Stop right there. I am not spoiled, so don't bothering typing it. I was the accident child. My second brother is the one that's spoiled, actually. So, because my brother is the only sibling left in my home, I naturally get beaten up on a daily basis in an emotional sense. Sounds fun, doesn't it? That would be the particular reason of my being locked up in my room. To get away from those people. Yes, to those of you who are wondering if I have discussed this particular accept with my mother AND my father. I have, on several occasions. My father, sadly, is incapable of controling any disturbances during the day because he sleeps inorder to work at night.

So I ask again, now that you know all of this. How do I make my mother leave me alone?