Leave me alone and let me do what I want to do!

I am a younger girl and I decided to start drinking when I was 12 and I decided to start having sex before I was 13. It is my business and only my business what I do. And yes, I like, no I love older men. What is the problem, if I am the one who decides what I want to do? Amanda

Answer #1

The problem is - Your a Child. No matter how grown up you are and how much you think you can do - you are still a child and your parents responsiblity. Drinking laws are set for a reason. Hearing things like this makes me sick to my stomach - because I was the same way. I’m not a recovering drug addict, a recovering alcoholic, and a rape victim. All because I thought I could I do what I wanted, when I wanted. It only leads to trouble and messes up your life and I promise it takes year to fix things and some things can never be fixed.

You need to grow up and realize the consequences for the things you are doing. Your going to end up just like I was, a drunk, a drug addict, a rape victim, homeless, stealing, lieing, and going nowhere.

Answer #2

ok. I personally don’t do any of these things but oh well. I don’t really see a massive problem about it. Just be careful with drinking and the sex thing. I am personally against it but if you became to really want to do it, although I think people may object but I don’t know though since I don’t know much about the people you know. Just make sure that if you do have sex, you have proper protection. Girls can die if they have a baby too young, the baby could die too. Pregnancies can happen on the first go as well so be careful. If you were to have sex with an older man and if you got found out, there is a possibility he could get sent to prison. good luck Amanda :)

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