What are some blow job tips?

I have a boyfriend and we have been together for 2 months, we’ve had sex and we do everything else, yet im scared of tossing him off! I’ve gave him head but when it comes to handjobs im just too scared im going to be rubbish, I need tips!! and also is there any tips you can give me about blowjobs? he says im good at them but is there anything that lads like that isnt just straight forward sucking there peniss if you get me? I also have no confidence to give him a blowjob without him asking me, do you think I should? I need help hahaa

Answer #1

No biting! Take your time and listen to any instructions. When you get real good loosen up your throat and take it all in, you will never lose him

Answer #2

Ummm, there is nothing wrong with trying to make your partner feel good irockatlife… Anyway, on the topic of handjobs; it is harder to give a bad handjob than it is to give a good (or at least decent one). Variation is a key element to any good handjob and so changing the intensity, grip, etc, can make a huge difference. You should not worry too much about handjobs. They are easier to perform than oral sex is :P. Just make plenty of eye-contact, talk dirty (eg. tell him how much you want him to climax, tell him how good his climax will feel, tell him how much you like playing with him :D, etc) and change things up whenever you can. If you make no eye-contact, don’t talk much and you do the same motion over and over again, he will probably tire of the sensation quickly, so I think those are some major points to remember.

In terms of variation, there are so many options available for you. Using lubricant at some stage of the handjob is one way to alter the sensation and often it makes a big difference. Also consider changing your positioning, how fast you are stroking ‘it’, how hard you are grasping ‘it’, etc. The idea of variation is to not allow him to get too used to any particular action (or way of performing that action) you are performing. Make changes to your action, position, etc, whenever you think he would like you to change it. That isn’t as hard as it may seem. I must also stress that it is sometimes the case that some girls use too much variation. Changing things up too often can keep him on edge too often and he may not feel as comfortable as he would if he was given time to settle and enjoy a single sensation. I think that is also an important point.

Letting him touch you as you give him a handjob may also make the experience more exciting for him. The clothing you wear may also have an impact on proceedings, lol. I would actually recommend that you wear revealing clothing, as opposed to being completely naked (only strip down totally if he insists on it ;)). Wearing such clothing has a ‘teasing’ element to it and it can make him want you a lot more. Leaving something to the imagination can come in handy.

As for the issue of confidence; that is something that often has to come with time. In saying that though, it is unlikely that you will find yourself in too many situations where he won’t let you go down on him, lol. We men are simple at times. Just pick your moments and set things up (eg. by kissing his neck, pushing him onto his back, trail down with your tongue or with kisses, etc). If you can set the mood, then I’m sure things will work out from there. It isn’t the blowjob you need to be thinking about. Take things step by step; starting with setting things up. As I said, if you can set the mood and create a sexual atmosphere, then taking things to the next step will not seem so mountainous.

Just concentrate on having fun… I think that’s what it is about at the end of the day. If you can show your boyfriend how you feel about him through your physical actions, then I’m sure you will make him feel great (and comfortable). Hope that helps a little :)!

Answer #3

well with tossing off you should make sure your hand is wet, use lube or just lick it wet and just do the usual up and down motion, maybe rub the head a lil or massage his balls, aslong as you dont do anything really odd he will like it :L blowjobs there is a lot more to it than just sucking theres licking, massaging, kissing and even nibbling, but only some guys like that, what you shoudl do is at first start off slow, toss him of for a while to make him hard then lick and suck the head of his penis, then start to lick down the shaft and slowly move your hand up and down, gentle put his penis in and out your mouth, as he gets closer get fatser and harder ul know when his about to cum, he will probs grab your head, when he does this you have to think fast on weather you want him to cum in your mouth, I recomend that you let him and by all means SWALLOW I know its gross I dont like it but he will love it hope I helped :)

Answer #4

thankyouuu :) x

Answer #5

Giving head and a blowjob=same thing…ssooo also heres a tip just don’t.

Answer #6

just do it.. be rough :)

Answer #7

Most girls and even some guys dont know this but about 95% of the nerves in a penis are in the head….he really doesnt care about what you do with the rest of it….do when you give a hand job, slowy rub your thumb or the head as you go forward and back.

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